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Re: [ranchos] Toribio Romo -- Mexico's Ghostly Benefactor of Illegal Aliens!


 
Well, according to some, I made some misconceived assumptions in my posting about the uncanny resemblance of some people in the religious and merchant and military communities of Jalisco and Aguascalientes (the altenos, as Irma says).  However, as Carol Turner states in her posting about Colotlan, Spaniards and Indians were segregated prior to 1821, and I know of some that kept their racial lily-white "purity" to recent times, my husband's people, for instance.  According to my mother-in-law and her sisters (now long dead), no one in their families or their in-laws' families had "ever mixed with Indians".  They were accomplished pianists, etc. and educated.  My husband and his brother are also averse to manual labor.  I can't ask my husband to fix anything around here.  He says "they have people that do that; call someone".  In California I had maids and gardeners, but up here I have bark, boulders, and native shrubs instead of lawn, and the house gets cleaned when I can't stand the dust bunnies any longer.  I've become very handy with tools, too.
 
My husband and his brother were the first in their families to marry dark olive skinned girls though they themselves weren't averse to using the term "chicanos prietos" or "indios surumatos".  My sister-in-law once made the statement that she would only marry "white" and she did.  My mother-in-law favored those grandchildren.  My husband's aunt in Mexico City, a profesora and former nun, was very critical of "inditos" and "rancheros".  She couldn't understand why everyone in Mexico couldn't get a higher education.  My mother-in-law took every opportunity to disparage my complexion.  When losing an argument about anything with me, she would start saying things out of the blue like "well, [prietas] may have some things to recommend them, but they can't compare to [gueras]".  In Mexico, too, I was unfamiliar with referring to people by their color--"la senora guera", etc.  At an upscale store there, when I bought a red umbrella, the clerk, who was guera, told me, "ah, la morena en rojo se ve muy bien".  Would she have told that to a guera?  I don't think so.  I was insulted. I can buy an umbrella here without a clerk making reference to my color.
 
I saw for myself that light skinned people have more of the best jobs and respect in Mexico.  I know that my husband's people were always merchants and religious and military and educated and lived in town.  The ones in Mexico City disdained anyone who did not have a string of degrees and titles and positions of authority or a proper profession.  My Zacatecan ancestors and relatives down to my father (a moreno) were not highly educated nor were there any doctores, licenciandos, rectores, bachilleres, etc.  They were laborers on haciendas, or alfaros (potters), canteros (stone-cutters), or jornaleros (day laborers).  The people in Jerez, Zacatecas did not seem as concerned about degrees and positions of authority.  My mother's farming family in New Mexico was a mixed family, some light, some dark, but never did the gueros lord it over the morenos as I found in my husband's family. It just wasn't done.  I know that nowadays most of our families, when we sit down to Thanksgiving dinner, look like a meeting of the United Nations.  It's about time that diversity was respected.  My husband and I now have younger relatives who are part black, white, Asian, Italian, Jewish, etc.  Our little great nieces and nephews come in all color combinations--white and blue-eyed, or dark and kinky haired with wide noses, or Oriental eyes, or celebrate Hannukah instead of Christmas or celebrate both.  Amen.
 
Emilie Garcia
Port Orchard, WA ---
 
 
----- Original Message -----
From: jose munoz
Sent: Tuesday, November 29, 2005 2:15 AM
Subject: Re: [ranchos] Toribio Romo -- Mexico's Ghostly Benefactor of Illegal Aliens!

I agree with you Alicia...

My fathers' cousin Angel Ramirez, and his wife Katy,
gave birth in the 50's to Maria and Johnny Ramirez.
The young girl eventually grew to a height of 5'5",
brown eyes, and long beautiful black hair. Her twin
brother growth was cut shot, just under 4 feet, green
eyes, and "what" a carrot top he sported. It took a
while to figure that one. No one thought they were
siblings. I believe many people do not understand what
they are really asking, assuming that it is just a
matter of people having similar physical appearance.
However, since physical appearance is influenced by
environmental factors, and not just genetics, people
can actually look very differently.

Jose Munoz

--- Alicia Carrillo <alliecar@...> wrote:

> I think it would be a mis-conception to make
> assumptions about someone's ancestry based solely or
> mostly on their looks. We all know that our genes go
> very far back and with all the inter-mixing of races
> anything is possible. I have a son who is very dark
> and has a blonde blue eyed son. I have a daughter
> that is not so dark and has beautiful brown eyed,
> black haired beautiful girls. Looks, eye color and
> skin color don't always tell the full story.

> Alicia
>
> Emilie Garcia <auntyemfaustus@...> wrote:
> Irma--

> No, I don't have the surname Romo in my lines.  It
> is my husband's ancestors, the Garcias, who are
> light skinned, tall, light haired, and hazel-eyed or
> blue eyed Tapatios from Jalisco.  The photo of the
> saint in the article for which I sent a link bears a
> striking resemblance to my husband, his father, and
> his great-grandmother, Marciana Cervantes.  I have
> traced some of the Garcias who married into the
> Calzada family that were from Rincon de Romos.  My
> husband's gggg-grandfather Cayetano Garcia married
> Anna Cleta Calzada.  Marciana Cervantes was
> descended from Patricio Martines [Martin] who
> married Maria Maxima Duron; they were also from
> Rincon de Romos.  In between there were Aguirres,
> Albas, Gonzaleses, Moroneses, Ornelases.  The
> closest surname to Romo in my husband's lines is one
> Roman. 

> I was just amazed that someone surnamed Romo from
> Jalostitlan could look so much like my husband's
> Garcia-Cervantes family from Encarnacion de Diaz in
> Jalisco.  People in Jalisco and Aguascalientes must
> be inter-related.  They also look different from the
> people I saw in Jerez when I went there in the
> 1960's with my father.  It seems my husband's
> ancestors were always merchants or military, or
> religious, etc. (town people) and were not laborers
> on the ranchos like my ancestors.  That leads me to
> believe that the Spaniards were more educated than
> the Mesizos in Mexico and held positions of
> authority and in commerce rather than laboring in
> the fields and ranches.

> Emilie Garcia
> Port Orchard, WA ---
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Irma GomezLucero
> To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Monday, November 28, 2005 10:03 AM
> Subject: RE: [ranchos] Toribio Romo -- Mexico's
> Ghostly Benefactor of Illegal Aliens!
>
>
> Santo Toribio has many of the features that are
> commonly seen in Romos even of today.  My aunt
> married a Romo, and many of my cousins have a
> striking ressemblance (mostly the beautiful
> eyes-whether they be brown/green/blue) to Santo
> Toribio.  Since they haven't done any research, I've
> been trying to figure out any connections for them.
> In doing this, I was able to tie in my dad's side of
> the family to Santo Toribio's mother who is NOT a
> Romo.  This is how I came to "meet" John G.  I still
> have more work to do on my Romos & my cousin's.  I
> also thought that my Santa Ana Romos would tie into
> Rincon de Romos.  My cousins claim that their father
> often told them they weren't related to the Romos of
> Santa Ana--that they were from San Luis Potosi.  I
> just think that their features are a bit too much to
> ignore.  Gotta go and dig some more....
> Emilie, am I understanding that you have Romo too,
> and that you tied into the Romos in Rincon de Romos?
>  Just wondering...  I know there are still many
> there but haven't been able to tie mine in ...
> Irma
>
>
> ---------------------------------
> From: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
> [mailto:ranchos@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of
> Alberto Duarte
> Sent: Monday, November 28, 2005 8:15 AM
> To: ranchos@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: Re: [ranchos] Toribio Romo -- Mexico's
> Ghostly Benefactor of Illegal Aliens!
>
>
>
> It's called faith and we have it.
>
> Alberto Duarte Prieto
> Santa Maria, California
>
> --- Emilie Garcia <auntyemfaustus@...>
> wrote:
>
> >
> >
>
http://www.viewzone.com/gene01.html<http://www.viewzone.com/gene01.html>
> >
> >
> > John,
> >
> > I had never heard of the saint you are related to,
> > so I started browsing the internet for information
> > on him, and I found this interesting article
> (check
> > link above).  What was fascinating to me is the
> > picture of Toribio Romo.  He bears a striking
> > resemblance to my husband, his father, and his
> > great-grandmother Marciana Cervantes who was from
> > Encarnacion de Diaz in Jalisco and whose ancestors
> I
> > have traced to Rincon de Romos in Aguascalientes
> > which is just south of our areas of interest in
> > Zacatecas. 
> >
> > How lucky you are to have traced your ancestors
> back
> > to 1550; I've been working so hard for over five
> > YEARS and have only found our people back to the
> > early 1700's. Was Santo Toribio Romo perhaps
> guiding
> > you?  The article goes into a deep discussion
> about
> > guardian angels, etc. all the way back in history
> > even before the Hebrews. 
> >
> > May Santo Toribio help us all in meeting our goals
> > as he has helped others of our people.
> >
> > Emilie Garcia
> > Port Orchard, WA ---
> >
> >
>
>
>
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