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this is great and a great thread.
although I don't have dreams [well let me back off and say i don't have
dreams i remember, because I don't remember dreams very often] although
i don't have dreams i share the idea that "our relatives" are somehow
helping us. I guess that sounds funny to me as I say it since some part
of me wants to disagree and say I'm being foolish, but another part
believes it. Its almost like a game. With us finding the information
that is freely available and it seems that our relatives are giving us
ear to ear "sonrizas." and then at other times we are discovering the
families "dirty laundry" . . .secrets that had might have stayed hidden
for 200 years only to have us come along and air that laundry out in
Public. At times I feel more comfortable with my genealogy family than
I do with my live family. I gain comfort thinking of the times when I
was 5 and used to sit on my Abuelito Julio's lap and pull his mustache
(I was the only one he let do that). As I research and find relatives I
feel very much comfort in that I am now introducing to the family our
relatives that have passed on 200+ years before and I envision them
giving their nod of approval as I sit on their laps as well.
. . .not sure where I'm going with this just wanted to say that I share
similar feelings about getting help from the past. . .
joseph
ps: Erlinda, you are exactly right about our relatives "having a
chance" to understand because of our work. How often I've seen people
come to this country from another country in SE Asia only to have their
children who were born here forget how to speak the native tongue in 1
generation. In a few generations with the kind of help we are
"preserving" our past would totally be lost. We are definitely doing
future generations a great service by discovering and preserving the
past.
Erlinda Castanon-Long wrote:
Thank you Emilie for talking about this subject. I find it
heartwarming that so many group members are willing to share
their 'extra' help in finding the records for our ancestors. People
who don't do genealogy find our passion for finding ancestors
strange. My sister said I am a genealogy addict, I told her I was
just passionate about finding all those who got me here in this day
and time. There are times when I don't get much sleep because of
dreams that ultimately open doors to more lines or names.
In doing records I find it's much easier to find the Spanish
ancestors than the Indio or Mulato lines due to a lack of last names
sometimes. I found that my Espanol ancestor Guadalupe Mendez
married a Mulato woman, Francisca Valencia in 1833. Francisca
haunted my dreams until I decided to pursue her lines. I took her
Rolon ancestor back to about 1660 and found them in and out of
slavery. I was proud when they were free in 1680 and inslaved again
in 1715 with my "love child' direct ancestor, Georje Rolon, born to
another female slave Gertrudis Antonia Alcaras. George married a
Mestisa in 1738 so their children became free, I cried again. After
doing all I could with this line the door for my Gutierrez ancestors
opened and I was taken from Jalisco to Michoacan where I found
hundreds of records taking that line back to about 1690.. I will
never take those dreams lightly again.. If the ancestors want to
help me rediscover our families heritage I will always be open to
their help. Doing genealogy is not just collecting names and dates,
the history and stories that emerge from the records gives our
ancestors a reality that makes me feel great joy and pain as their
stories unfold.
Im my case I am the last generation that understands or speaks any
Spanish at all and that is truly limited. I feel with my genealogy
work my decendants have a chance 100 years from now to understand
the blood that flows through their veins. I do believe I was chosen
to bring my families lines to light again, just as many of you have
been for your lines.
Linda in Everett
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